Orgasmic Birthing: Fact or Fiction?
This is our first post on the topic of birthing, and we’ve decided to start with a topic which is not often discussed. Much is said in popular culture about the pain of childbirth. It could be argued, however, that, despite the pain, most women enjoy the experience. But what if we told you that birth could be orgasmic? Welcome to the world of orgasmic birth, also known as ecstatic birth.
What is Orgasmic Birthing?
Orgasmic birthing is the concept that certain people might have the potential to experience orgasms, either spontaneously or through masturbation or intercourse, during the birthing process. The idea of a pleasurable birth has been advocated for by birth doula Debra Pascali-Bonaro (we highly recommend taking a look at the resources on her website, especially if orgasmic birthing is something you’re interested in).
Is It Really Possible?
While evidence of orgasmic birth is primarily anecdotal, it appears that it could indeed happen. Although very rare, estimations suggest that it might occur in about 0.3% of vaginal births. However, the actual prevalence might be higher, as many people find the subject taboo and under report their experiences.
The Physiology Behind Orgasmic Birth
Orgasmic birth might be attributed to various factors. The baby's movement through the same areas that contribute to sexual pleasure is one reason. Additionally, during childbirth and lactation, hormones like oxytocin are released, the same hormone released during an orgasm.
Is it right for you?
The truth is - it will work for some, but not for others. Factors such as individual anatomy, pain thresholds, and openness to the experience of pleasure during childbirth play a role. Clitoral orgasms, for instance, may not offer the same pain-blocking effects as vaginal orgasms during labour. Ultimately, it’s up to you!
Benefits and Risks
Research (dating all the way back to 1985) suggests that orgasms can increase pain tolerance, making them a natural pain reliever during childbirth. An orgasmic birth may lead to feelings of empowerment and a more positive birth experience. However, focusing too much on achieving an orgasmic birth might create unnecessary pressure and disappointment.
Discussing Orgasmic Birth with Your Doctor
If you're considering an orgasmic birth, it's essential to discuss it with your healthcare provider. While a pleasurable birth experience is a legitimate desire, safety remains paramount. Home births, for example, might not be recommended for individuals with certain risk factors.
Embrace the Idea of Pleasurable Birth
The taboo surrounding pleasure during childbirth has led many to feel shame or embarrassment if they experience orgasms. However, embracing the idea of a pleasurable birth, whether it culminates in an orgasm or not, can offer a more relaxed and empowered birthing experience.
Childbirth is a unique and deeply personal journey. If you're open to the possibility of an orgasmic birth and feel comfortable discussing it with your doctor, you have the right to explore this path. Remember, it's all about taking control of your birthing plan and finding the most enjoyable and empowering experience possible. So, let's break the stigma and embrace the fascinating world of orgasmic birthing!
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The information provided in this blog post is based on anecdotal evidence and should not replace professional medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for personalised guidance during pregnancy and childbirth.